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  1. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Ok then :D
  2. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    How did this become a religious debate? O.o Well, we can stop it right here by me firmly stating that, if there is a creature out there with immense power to the point where it would be seen as a deity in our eyes, I HIGHLY doubt it gives a crap about what we do, as long as we don't go and...
  3. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    v.v You're not getting it... I am saying that it was the way I was brought up that causes me to believe this, and believe it to the end. Nature vs. Nurture. If I was raised in a household that thought this stuff was bullshit, then I would be on your side. Instead, I was raised in a house that...
  4. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    *Sighs* Well, it was the way I was brought up. It is a part of me to believe that sex and virginity is sacred. If there is a syndrome where one believes in something no matter what, no matter how asinine it is or how good the arguments against it are (example supporting the existence of this...
  5. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Well, it isn't because I think I will go to hell if I have sex before marriage. It just feels... Like it should be given only for the one that I feel is right for me
  6. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Yeah, was your grandmother also one of the sisters at the church?
  7. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Don't forget, I was raised in a Christian-Catholic environment. They tend to drill in that sex and virginity is sacred at a very young age. To the point where it becomes part of the person >.> God, I hope I don't sound like an ignorant idiot who recycles the same old arguments over and over...
  8. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Sometimes, the root could be as simple as, "I want to make sure this person is perfect for me, absolutely, 100% perfect, before I give up my virginity" That is the root of my discomfort. And that is why I could easily end up becoming comfortable before marriage, if I believe the person is right...
  9. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Right and wrong are pretty objective I already said that that was more of a bad choice of words on my part >.< Because I believe that, at that time, I would feel more comfortable. I could easily be wrong and feel more comfortable earlier or later, however What does that mean? Well, I am...
  10. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Well, as XS put it before deleting his post, it makes me feel uncomfortable, the idea of having sex before marriage. Wouldn't it be more respectful to wait until I am comfortable? Heck, in the end, I might not even wait until marriage! But, as for the present, I believe that to be the time that...
  11. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    ...I am not even going to reply beyond this, as I know I would end up typing a flame
  12. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Hey! So, what, if I want to wait until marriage, but they don't, I should go against what I think is right, and go fuck them when they ask?
  13. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    That would come into account as well. Besides, the only way they would get some is either through marriage or rape, and I don't think rape shows alot of respect XD
  14. Icalasari

    Premarital sex?

    Well, to be fair, Marriage didn't exist back then X3 Anyways, I say, like everybody else in here, Go for it. It isn't affecting me as long as you aren't doing it in front of me... I plan to wait until marriage myself, actually. Make sure I am with somebody I truly love. Also, I think of it as...
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